I found this video in my search for learning how to true my wheels and make them stronger. It’s very well done. The stand is constructed after Roger Musson’s plans in his excellent book, The Professional Guide to Wheel Building.
Amazon carries the Spokey Pro spoke wrench he talks about. They come in 2 sizes so check the size before you buy.
Here is another video with Roger Musson lacing up a wheel in 7 and a half minutes:
And some links I found interesting with people commenting on the topic of wheel building:
https://yacf.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=87457.0
http://forums.mtbr.com/wheels-tires/wheelbuilding-q-oil-spoke-nipples-no-174094.html